It is neither obvious nor necessarily true that if she loses an argument and you win, may be you are more articulate and have been able to dominate, but her pain and agony was genuine though she lost. Just because I lose a case in court it does not mean that Truth and justice were not on my side but just that I could not afford expensive lawyers that other side could.
The aboriginal tribe Sentinelese of Andaman & Nicobar have lived and survived that way for thousands of years and it is nothing but falsehood and arrogance on our part to claim that we are more modern or developed than they are.
True, they are different, their value system different but we are not necessarily a superior civilization to theirs. Apparently, women enjoy more freedom and less oppression in tribal society than they manage in so called civilized society.
It is not that liberals are from Mars and conservatives are from Venus. It is just that their perception and world view are not converging. Both belong to same planet and have no necessity to behave as if they were negative and positive charges which destroy one another as soon as in contact.
In Nature, flowers of different hue and colours co exist with grass and thorns. It does not make any sense to create designer babies who are smarter and smarter because the very idea of who is smart is only a creation of our mind which is nothing but a bundle of biases and prejudices. Nature looks upon all its creation, tiny or tall, an insect or mighty human with same love and compassion and does not hesitate destroying them if gets irritated.
The two articles one on Andaman & Nicobar tribes and other by Prasoon Joshi have surprisingly an unity of thoughts at a deeper level, if only you have time and focus to go through them.